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Notes on household money, written after living with it rather than reading about it.

When income is irregular: when a professional should step in
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When income is irregular: when a professional should step in

Anyone who has spent time on when income is irregular has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is not…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·August 21, 2026·4 min read
Ordering debts by priority: costing it honestly
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Ordering debts by priority: costing it honestly

Put ordering debts by priority back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives good months…

Eloise FontaineEloise Fontaine·August 15, 2026·4 min read
The review after a year: how to tell you are doing it right
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The review after a year: how to tell you are doing it right

If you have already tried the review after a year and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an environment…

Thea BergstromThea Bergstrom·August 9, 2026·4 min read
Splitting into three accounts: turning choices into a process
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Splitting into three accounts: turning choices into a process

Anyone who has spent time on splitting into three accounts has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is not…

Gideon StarkGideon Stark·August 3, 2026·4 min read
Listing fixed costs: turning choices into a process
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Listing fixed costs: turning choices into a process

There is plenty written about listing fixed costs and little you can act on. This piece stays concrete: every action can be done at the kitchen sink,…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·July 28, 2026·4 min read
The monthly reconciliation: how to start and how to keep it
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The monthly reconciliation: how to start and how to keep it

Let us set the limits of the monthly reconciliation first: it reliably improves never hunting for things, and it does not deliver overnight. Anything…

Eloise FontaineEloise Fontaine·July 22, 2026·4 min read
Recording cash flow simply: only a few moves matter
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Recording cash flow simply: only a few moves matter

There is plenty written about recording cash flow simply and little you can act on. This piece stays concrete: every action can be done by the shoe…

Thea BergstromThea Bergstrom·July 16, 2026·4 min read
Deciding on a large purchase: how to tell you are doing it right
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Deciding on a large purchase: how to tell you are doing it right

Most people want deciding on a large purchase to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a bad day.…

Gideon StarkGideon Stark·July 10, 2026·4 min read
Sizing an emergency fund properly: from messy to orderly
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Sizing an emergency fund properly: from messy to orderly

If you only read one paragraph, read this: sizing an emergency fund properly depends on how the situation is set up, not on how you feel at the time.…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·July 4, 2026·4 min read
Where insurance fits: how to start and how to keep it
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Where insurance fits: how to start and how to keep it

Advice on where insurance fits tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some patience and some…

Eloise FontaineEloise Fontaine·June 28, 2026·4 min read
Sharing education costs: for people with no spare time
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Sharing education costs: for people with no spare time

Advice on sharing education costs tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some patience and…

Thea BergstromThea Bergstrom·June 22, 2026·4 min read
Running a short family meeting: costing it honestly
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Running a short family meeting: costing it honestly

If you have already tried running a short family meeting and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an…

Gideon StarkGideon Stark·June 16, 2026·4 min read
Building an annual budget: only a few moves matter
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Building an annual budget: only a few moves matter

Anyone who has spent time on building an annual budget has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is not…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·June 10, 2026·4 min read
Adjusting after overspending: turning choices into a process
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Adjusting after overspending: turning choices into a process

Separate two things in adjusting after overspending: the outcome you want and the action you can sustain. When the gap is too wide, shrink the action…

Eloise FontaineEloise Fontaine·June 4, 2026·4 min read
Clearing subscriptions: only a few moves matter
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Clearing subscriptions: only a few moves matter

Anyone who has spent time on clearing subscriptions has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is not another…

Thea BergstromThea Bergstrom·May 29, 2026·4 min read
The smallest useful tracking unit: the version that fits a real home
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The smallest useful tracking unit: the version that fits a real home

There is plenty written about the smallest useful tracking unit and little you can act on. This piece stays concrete: every action can be done in the…

Gideon StarkGideon Stark·May 23, 2026·4 min read
Money boundaries between partners: when a professional should step in
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Money boundaries between partners: when a professional should step in

Anyone who has spent time on money boundaries between partners has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·May 17, 2026·4 min read
Budgeting for elder support: the version that fits a real home
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Budgeting for elder support: the version that fits a real home

Put budgeting for elder support back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives good months…

Eloise FontaineEloise Fontaine·May 11, 2026·4 min read
A buffer inside a renovation budget: when a professional should step in
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A buffer inside a renovation budget: when a professional should step in

Anyone who has spent time on a buffer inside a renovation budget has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is…

Thea BergstromThea Bergstrom·May 5, 2026·4 min read
Planning travel spending: turning choices into a process
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Planning travel spending: turning choices into a process

If you only read one paragraph, read this: planning travel spending depends on how the situation is set up, not on how you feel at the time. Arrange…

Gideon StarkGideon Stark·April 29, 2026·4 min read